Tag Archives: sex

Is the “affair down” theory just a defense mechanism?

Posted on September 6, 2012 by C.X.Love

Okay, before everyone attacks me and I get the “I hate you” emails this is my personal opinion and based off the opinions of my friends and the experiences I have had….I can’t speak for everyone so I could be … Continue reading →

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Do I occasionally think more about your marriage than your husband?

Posted on August 19, 2012 by C.X.Love

HEA texted me earlier this week and kept flirting for awhile then asked if he could stop by because he missed me…I told him that was fine and asked him when he wanted to come over and he said he … Continue reading →

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Are women becoming too desperate to hold onto a man?

Posted on August 9, 2012 by C.X.Love

So, I have noticed a common thread among cheating…women are much more likely to forgive when a man cheats on them and men are much more likely to get rid of a woman who has cheated on them…I have a … Continue reading →

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Husbands rethinking an affair

Posted on July 18, 2012 by C.X.Love

I notice a lot of women seem to wonder if their men ever think about them during an affair and want to stop it…well I now have a new affair buddy so I figured he was a good one to … Continue reading →

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Can you stop an affair before it happens?

Posted on June 12, 2012 by C.X.Love

All things aside if your husband wants to cheat…he will!  However, outside of fixing your actual marriage issues…can you pick up on women like me and do something about it?  BB’s wife practically ordered him to stay away from me, … Continue reading →

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Using sex to get revenge (I do this a lot)

Posted on June 9, 2012 by C.X.Love

I remember the first day I met Todd’s wife, Colleen (names have been changed)…I immediately did not trust her but she was close to one of my best friends so I figured I’d give her a chance.  I used to … Continue reading →

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Long Term Affairs

Posted on May 26, 2012 by C.X.Love

Unless I am in a relationship, I am usually involved in at least one long term affair (typically this man also fits a “sugar daddy” description but I’m not a fan of using that term for him) at any given … Continue reading →

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Contacting the other woman

Posted on May 24, 2012 by C.X.Love

So, after numerous requests and a heartfelt email yesterday I’ll suck it up and write this but I’m not even sure where to start…I’m not a professional and can only offer my advice on this topic but I’ll do my … Continue reading →

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Accidental Cheaters

Posted on May 23, 2012 by C.X.Love

So, I’m often asked about men who accidentally cheat… I don’t believe that cheating is ever an accident…even if a man is drunk or high he’s still going to do something he wanted to do sober….here’s an accidental cheater that … Continue reading →

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Where are my morals?

Posted on April 17, 2011 by C.X.Love

Okay, so the one question I seem to get asked a lot is “do I feel bad knowing I’m hurting another female/family? etc” and my honest answer is no… I look at it this way…your relationship is not my responsibility … Continue reading →

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